Archives for January, 2012

Last spring, I decided I had to have a white or a cream-colored purse.  I became obsessed with getting one.  Everywhere I went, I scanned the handbag selection.   One day when I was in another party of the country, I found myself in one of those overly expensive stores, where I’d gone into “just look,” [...]


My son came to town this weekend for the sole reason of 1) seeing his mom, who misses him dearly, and 2) to see the Rolex 24 at Daytona. Ok, I’m lying about #1; he’s really here to see the race. But that’s ok – I’m going with him because guess who is racing today? [...]


On this day in 1813, Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice was first published in England and was mostly well received. As time passed on, there have been many printings, adaptations and, eventually, Colin Firth as Mr Darcy. For Fun Contest Saturday, we are celebrating P&P‘s 199th birthday by choosing three winners from today’s comments, each [...]


I went to graduate school in Wisconsin. Needless to say, the winters were a lot different from what I had known growing up in Virginia. I was prepared, however. I had boots a lot like UGGS before anyone knew about UGGS. I had a long wool coat. I wore it over wool slacks and a [...]


This was one of my mom’s favorite sayings.  She had a million.  There was also: Kids are mean. Because I said so. You have thighs like you father’s. (I am not even going to discuss that one.) You’re not fat, you’re big boned. (That one either.) I’ll give you something to cry about. If you [...]


Clearly, Karen and I have weddings on the brain these days! (No, I’m not planning another one–I’m happy with the longtime hubby, thank you very much!) But what I wanted to talk about was the wedding part … and how to do it on the cheap while still being creative. When I got married, I [...]


I’m not a girly sort of girl. For example, I hate the color pink and wouldn’t own a designer purse if you gave it to me. I like things with fewer ruffles. Things that are elegant … quiet … simple. That said, I have to admit one area where I’m 100% frilly girl: I LOVE [...]


Yep, I’m B-A-A-A-CK! I’m pre-empting FROS for a very special reason–because A Lady Never Surrenders comes out on Tuesday. And my inspiration for the hero, Bow Street Runner Jackson Pinter, is none other than David Gandy! Like Gandy, Jackson is a self-made man and modest. Because they’re SO much alike, I had to really get into [...]


I received a Kindle Touch for my birthday. It’s on my table right now, and I’m keeping a wary eye on it. At the moment it contains seven books – three of them mine, plus a pair of romances and two research books. As for what to do with it now, I’m still kind of [...]


The management of lipstick is one of the banes of my existence.  I have a thousand tubes of it, in a dozen different shades, and I almost always wear Carmex instead. That would be fine if I were twenty, or even thirty, but I’m not, and here is an honest to god rule for the [...]


My dad is an amazing, intelligent, classy man. But he has one odd kick to his gallop. You can talk to my dad while he’s hard at work in his shop, interrupt him while he’s reading a book, chat him up during a golf game — heck, he doesn’t mind if you decide to tell [...]


Yes, Marie Antoinette comes with a detachable dress. And you may not be able to tell, but she has quite the bosom showing above her corset. Imagine my surprise the other day when I took off her dress to discover she had magically acquired a … er … fichu. When I looked closer, I realized [...]


There seem to be a lot of movies coming out right now that feature kick-ass heroines. Whenever I see the ads for those, I start ruminating on the whole emergence of characters like that. Not kick-ass in a metaphorical meaning, mind you. I mean female characters who fight and shoot and actually kick guys’ asses.  I [...]


The other day I was driving down the road, singing along to the oldies station on the radio. I was in a pretty chipper mood, belting out some Jungle Love. I was in Jr. High School when Steve Miller’s Jungle love was a hit, and it brought back memories of tanning by the lake. Next [...]


As many of you may remember, For Refreshment Only Sundays (FROS) has its own Fantasy Football Team. And since it’s our personal fantasy team, we have many special teams that we can enjoy. One of my favorites is our Quarterback Special Team. Our quarterbacks do more than merely tote the ball. OUR players on OUR [...]


I am thrilled to be here today, to be given the opportunity to entice all the Goddesses’ readers to check out my debut novel, Under the Same Sky, which is IN STORES NOW! I am still in somewhat of a daze, overwhelmed by the reality that my book is out there, but I have to [...]


I love this show.  I love looking in other people’s houses, and I really love looking at them around the globe.  Mongolia?  Seriously?  I was so ready for the big tents and camel stalls, but they have actual houses there.  Who knew?  And who knew how many people pick up and move across the world [...]


Well, after a year or so of wondering why printed directions for various things were getting so small, I went and did it. Yes, I purchased a pair of granny glasses. They’re the least magnification available, but that $2.50 represents something more than bad eyes. I already have bad eyes, you know. I’ve worn contact [...]


As some of you may or may not know, I made a rather drastic relocation last year from Los Angeles to a wee town in western Colorado. From a metro area of 12.9 million people to a micropolitan (not making that term up) area which has a population (in the entire county) of about 42,000. [...]


Everything, these days, it seems has a protection plan.  Buy a new TV, phone, computer, car, video game, small appliance or large and the big question is:  Would you like to add a protection plan to that? I’m pretty much on the “yes” side of that question.  I’ve had very good luck with the protection [...]


Some things get better with age. That includes fine wine, some cheeses, and Rob Lowe. Seriously, the guy is rockin’ his age. Check him out:   Impressive, eh? But let’s get a bit Lower: ***shiver*** And how about this one? Whew. We got pretty Lowe, didn’t we? Happy FROS, m’dears! And thank you for seeing [...]


Did you ever have a teenage crush? Painful, isn’t it? Those tender dreams and fantasies, all based on… nothing. I stalked a man for months once. I was a school girl and he was… who knows? He caught the same train to work as I caught to school, and I managed to sit opposite him [...]


Here is a sad, sad story:  we are passionate board game people in my house.  One of my mad favorites over the past couple of years is The Settlers of Catan, which is a fast-paced resource and strategy game.  I rope everyone I know into playing (and almost without exception, everyone loves it) and will [...]


Yesterday, inspired by the unusual cold weather here in Florida, I decided to make good, healthy, super tasty veggie soup. The kind of soup my grandmother used to make. Hot Cop was excited to hear this because he’s tried my grandmother’s soup and it’s fantastic. So I got out my soup pot and the recipe [...]


I don’t know why I am the way I am, but I’m a mover. Literally. It may be because my ancestors were Vikings and they really got around. It may be because my grandparents moved to America as teens (independently, they met and married in America), waving good-bye to their homeland, their families, their history [...]